An Account of Surprising Generosity: The Time a Student Allowed Me to Stay on Her Dormitory Ground

During the year 2006, My journey took me to Canberra for a medical school interview. I figured to book a place to stay upon arrival, however upon reaching the city, a major event was happening and every single backpackers hostels and budget accommodation were fully booked.

As a visitor from the city-state of Singapore, the idea crossed my mind maybe I could spend the night at the terminal – only to discover Canberra airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, closes 24 hours. With no idea what my next move should be and growing worried, I caught a bus into town and found myself drifting in the direction of a gaming venue, reasoning I could pass the night in a place that was open all night. This was not ideal in the best shape to succeed at a crucial interview the next morning, yet, as a broke student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.

The world needs more individuals who show such kindness.

I must have looked confused as a young woman noticed me walking aimlessly through the city and asked if everything was alright. I recounted my predicament and immediately she suggested I was welcome to sleep on the ground in her student dorm at the Australian National University – an ideal turn of events, as that’s where my interview was scheduled for the next day. Generously, she also provided some food: one filled rolls she had from her evening job. This gave me the bathroom and a protected spot to rest to spend the night.

In retrospect, I can appreciate the significant risk she undertook being a woman letting a man she’d just met crash at her place. Back then I operated under my own unawareness and did not consider to the potential danger. As a dad now, I’m amazed she took that chance – but still very grateful.

I didn’t end up attending the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet that kind stranger again, yet her memory has stayed with me her selfless deed of human compassion. I hope the universe has returned her good deed abundantly. We could all use more folks who show such kindness.